Taking care of an elderly parent can be extremely rewarding,
but it also requires fortitude and determination.
The care starts off slowly...filling a prescription, doing a little laundry,
going food shopping for them or providing a ride to a doctor appointment.
Nowadays, people are living well into their 80's, and they can require a lot of help and care...
it can at times be daunting.
Hiring people to assist with some of the chores helps, but it can come with a feeling of
guilt on your part or resentment from your parent.
Parents can feel that their family should be taking care of them and doing everything that is required.
It is necessary for family members to be involved in certain things...
especially doctor appointments.
There is a lot of information available for caregivers on how to care for their elderly parents.
- Educate yourself about your parents medical condition -
- Include your parents when making decisions -
- Plan ahead -
- Keep a close eye on your parents well being -
- Inlist helpers early on -
- Maintain respect in your communications with your parent or parents -
- Get support -
- try to make this time in your lives rewarding -
I am adding a ps, not that it is really important, but we are taking care of both of our mothers,
hoping we are doing a good job.